Newsflash, there are no total packages in life for the most part. Often the things we think of as perfect are only that way specifically because of the imperfections accompanying elements of flawlessness. We take in the good with the bad, the old with the new, hoping our attempts to wrap our hands around success never miss. The latter is true especially where money and reputations end up being invested. Of course part of what makes life wonderful is knowing even the most supposedly thoroughly contrived events are never able to be completely controlled. How interesting and humorous it can be to watch the most well controlled, scripted, scientifically put together, "expertly" advised, planned and thought through to the last detail designed to have a specific outcome, can be a falling down flopping around on the ground with arms flailing "what the heck was that" huge fiery mushroom cloud epic failure.